Anonymous asked: Is it wierd to like your best guy friends cousin?
Anonymous asked: I met this guy and we became close fast, physically and emotionally. Sometimes we end up cuddling (pretty much naked) and talking until the next morning. Mind you its only been 3 weeks. Suddenly he isn't ready for a relationship/not over someone else but he likes me (his ex texted him the day before). He now wants to take things slow and start as friends. I was angry because he led me on but I agree. Inside, Im torn. I don't know whether to be happy as friends or let him go cause he isn't over h
if you want something to happen, it’s gonna have to happen slowly. he went too fast for his liking, lost control, and crashed. do you THINK it’s worth it?
Anonymous asked: The thing about approaching her is that she thinks shes better than the rest of us. Like she cant handle a joke. The three of us will be performing infront of the whole student body for a christmas concert next week and im kind of scared that we'll suck balls cus we havent seen each other. Im just so tired of her drama shit but I also want to kiss and make up
you dont have to be fake about it, be honest. if she thinks she’s better than y’all maybe she needs to realize she isn’t!
Anonymous asked: Advice for making out? well, I've kissed and stuff, but never really had an actuall session of it. Any tips? (this is a girl)
be slow and not forceful. youre not supposed to know what he ate for lunch. it does get wet. move a little bit, encourage him, etc - read and follow his body langage
Anonymous asked: so this guy and I didn't text or anything for like a week and I was like, "well dang, I guess he's not interested in me anymore" but then I got a "good morning" text from him this morning and we talked. he was like, "you haven't texted me all week," and I was like, "I feel like I'm annoying or boring," and he said that me texting him makes his "day just a little better" and ahhh. so sweet :)
Anonymous asked: So yeah... And still to this day, it bothers me. Because normally she probably would have did whatever she could to not hold his hand (it was for a gym game thing)... I feel like she did this on purpose?? Idk. Cause she "hates" him. As she tells me... (2/2) Oh and it was our anniversary last week and my bf's best friend wasn't at school that day. (They're all in the same class and they eat lunch together) so by that, they were alone. Eating lunch. Together. That bothers me. So. Much. Omfg.
be confident and have trust in YOUR RELATIONSHIP
sometimes, it isn’t them, it’s us and our lack of confidence and trust!
Anonymous asked: Meh hi Ate. So like I asked you a question, awhile back, and I never saw it, you probably answered I was just too lazy to check and since I don't follow your advice blog which I will after I finish typing lol But anyway just a recap, This is the same girl with her boyfriend and friend in the same class. Meaning they have gym together. And I was told they held hands. Yes, I was jealous... Meh. The fact that they held hands before we ever did it makes me like yeah. Jealous. (1/2)
Anonymous asked: Dear Ate, I'm a really quiet and shy girl. I become more outgoing when I'm comfortable with people. There is a boy that I somewhat like and he is popular. How do I start a conversation with him?
start with hello. fill it in with a compliment. grow it with a question.
Anonymous asked: oh hello ate.. just wanted to share something, this is my first time btw. so i have this friend that i think i might like and uhm.. i thought i'd tell him, doesn't matter if nothing comes of it. >.< im confused if i should though.. im worried we might not be the same after i tell him. (this is so cliche but whatever) lol thanks!
weigh out the pros and cons. do you want to keep questioning his feelings or know and find out with the risk of him not feeling the same way?
Anonymous asked: if a guy looks at you a lot & when you look at him he quickly looks away it doesnt mean that he likes you right?