Anonymous asked:
Hey ate! I'm doing my freshman year in college right now, and I just feel so behind from everyone because I've never had a boyfriend/kissed etc. Almost everyone I know has had someone and I just feel like I'm lacking in some way or not good enough because no guy has ever asked me out or told me I was cute. I don't understand what to do. Thanks for your advice and support <3

don’t worry about that because it’ll happen and it doesn’t happen to everyone at the same time. don’t stress out about it because it really isn’t a big deal and you don’t need that stuff to happen to you right away

Anonymous asked:
i was the one that asked about the date (and you said it could just a friend date). i came back to update! he's my boyfriend now and hit our first month a few days ago. (:

omg yay!

Anonymous asked:
youve been giving so much advice to so many people for the past few years i've been following you & i wanted to let you know that you're doing great i hope you have an exquisite week :)

thank you so much!

Anonymous asked:
This guy last year said I was cute and i thought the same about him but nothing ever happened. This year I asked him to Sadie's. He said yes, but im not sure he said yes just because all my friends were around and he felt pressured to say yes or just because he wanted to. The only thing is..we BARELY talk. We greet each other occasionally in the halls but that is usually it. I really want to talk to him and ask if he is really agreeing to go, but I dont know what to say if he says he doesnt..

if you are going to sadies together, why not get his number and txt? it’ll be so awkward to sit there at sadies and not talk!!

Anonymous asked:
ateeeee

yesssssss

Anonymous asked:
Is it bad to have like.. lots of emotion. I find I still get emotional of my ex and i don't like it. i feel weak. im still emotionally investing myself despite it being over. if that makes any sense? i inda hate it but i can't help it.

it’s not bad to be in tune with your feelings. I don’t see why it’s a bad thing. it’s what makes you, you.

Anonymous asked:
My boyfriend has been very distant lately and I can't stand it. He would go days without talking to me but when he has to face me, he acts like nothing is wrong. It's reoccurring and every time I approach him, he says he just gets like that. Me overreacting, I broke up with him. I don't know what to do. I want him back. But I'm so tired of being put aside. ):

if this person upsets you, there’s no point in being with them if they’re not going to change. you didn’t overreact. he didn’t give you what you looked for in a relationship. so kudos to you for not stopping short and giving up to this guy

Anonymous asked:
but ate , how are you supposed to know that he treats you different from any other girls ? like if you dont really know how he talks to other girls...

sometimes you just know. guys go out of their way for the girl they like and if you feel like he is doing that for you, he probably is.

Anonymous asked:
ate im a freshmen and im talking to this junior guy, we snapchat and talk all the time and i really like him we do flirty stuff and call each other bae as a joke and i compliment him and vice versa the problem is idk if he likes me

if he likes you, you’ll find out eventually. just keep talking and most importantly, establish a good friendship. get to know him before jumping into things!

Anonymous asked:
hi ate, so ive known this guy forever and i liked him when i was like 8 until 10 years old. i gave up cos he ignored me and knew i liked him. we never really talked until our last 2 years of high school and we became close again. i mean we're childhood friends. my bestfriend ships us and wont stop bugging me on how we're good tgt. she said shell talk to him~ idk what to do

TALK TO HIM. you really wanna it there and wait until you guys go your separate ways and never see each other again? if you like someone, tell them. if not, nothing is going to happen