Anonymous asked:
ate im 15 and im starting cheer on tuesday and its my first year! im totally nervous, can u pls give me some tips most of my cheer friends say i would be a flyer bc im super short & small

HAVE FUNNNN

be confident and just do your best and try your hardest :)

as long as you do not put so much pressure on yourself you should be ok. remember to annunciate and smile.

Anonymous asked:
ATEE ! ok have you ever been to a CFC-Y conference? and than you meet a bunch of others from different cities. well i "met" this really nice guy and i added him on fb. the reason i said "met" was cause i was talking to our mutual friend and all we said to eachother was hi LOL but i added him and i wanna chat with him w/o looking creepy plus have nothing to talk about! ps. apparently hes really shy + im not much of a texter so idkkkk

just talk to him. you have mutual interests! do not be so nervous :)

Anonymous asked:
Hey ate, so I met this guy on Omegle and I like talking to him via kik. I usually have to start the conversation first but when he replies he seems interested in talking to me and also flirts a bit (sometimes it kind of comes off as kinky). Thing is, he lives in a different country and works full time because it's summer :/ I told him when I might come visit his country spring break of 2015, but I fear we won't talk by then :/ what should I do ate?

if you are already discouraged this early in the game, do not make promises you are already upset about

Anonymous asked:
Hi Ate, so I have been flirting with this guy for a while. He says he's not interested in dating, but he's interested in me. I have no idea what to do. We live kind of far from each other, but he always suggest that either I visit him, or he visits me, but nothing ends up happening. Ps; he can drive and I can't. He also knows that I like him. Please help me out here. ):

if you think there is a point in pursuing him, do it. but what are you gonna do? just talk? just like each other and wait???

Anonymous asked:
Ate, how do you know if a guy is playing you?

if you think he is, he probably is

Anonymous asked:
I failed all my ap tests and I told my counselors from the beginning I couldn't do it and they said I could and now I'm in 4 ap classes for my senior year and it's nice that they think I can do it but sad story is I can't

say fuck you and drop the classes. or don’t do the work and be forced to drop

Anonymous asked:
Hi! So i caught hard feelings for my friend's cousin and i know we'll never happen. I have the biggest crush on him but he has a girlfriend, lives far away from me, and is a bit older. We met because of my friend's debut (we were both in cotillion) and never really spoke, but he'd always look at me and stuff. When he did talk to me, he was being so flirty and i got so attracted to him. I'll never see him again because the debut ended yesterday. How can i get over him and stop thinking about him?

go out and meet people where you live

don’t be so hung up on someone that may or may not ever see you again girl!

Anonymous asked:
Hi, I went out with this guy, he wasn't any other guy that I dated, he was my ideal type of guy. We broke up mutually because of my situation, we decided to be friends and we're okay-ish. I can't believe I let him go, i still love him and idk what to do. i want to get back with him. Plus I've got a feeling that he likes his other friend and it's hurting me and they always hangout with other friends. I have strict asian parents so I can't just hangout with guys but I want to hang out with him.

do what you can do with what you have. basically, if you can chill, do it - if not, don’t force the impossible. also, ask yourself if he is really worth it

Anonymous asked:
Part (5/5) idk what do, I have really strong feelings for him and he does for me too but he has a gf now and I'm not trying to ruin that for him. I just wanna know if it's true that he could still have feelings for me? I'm sorry that this is so long

see how he moved on? you can too!!!! he could, but right now he cant do that to 2 girls. so I think it’s best for you to do the same and to live your life. youre still young so don’t get tied down to someone that hasn’t completely tied himself down to you

Anonymous asked:
Part (4/5) and it truly hurts because of all the things we've been through in the little time I was in the PI. We were practically dating when I was there but now that I'm not, he's moved on so quickly. He's said that he misses me but he has a gf now

ok