Anonymous asked:
I had a feeling that he liked him but I was never really sure. He asked me to prom but I never answered him. Our prom was last Saturday and to make it up to him I told him to save me a slow dance, and so he did give me a slow dance. It was great, I loved it. BUT, while we were slow dancing, I wanted to cry in a way and I was happy. Is that good? I love my bestfriend but I'm just so confuse. (Pt.2)

if you are confused, tell him. I know it sucks and it is also kinda exciting and scary but you have to be honest with him so he can be honest with you too!

Anonymous asked:
Ate, so my bestfriend admitted to me that he likes me. I told him that I didn't want to ruin our bestfriendship. We've been bestfriends for 6-7 years now. He understood me. He felt the same way about me that it would be wrong to be in a relationship then if we break up, our friendship will probably die. Our feelings towards each other have not changed. But it just feels very different. (Pt.1)

I see

Anonymous asked:
PART2: back like all the emotions. & sometimes i see him with his ex girlfriend & i can't compete bc she's so pretty & everything. idk every time i see him talking to her or walking to class with her breaks my heart & im so stupid for breaking up with him. i mean we still talk as friends maybe just say hi sometimes but he's been texting me a lot still & idk i still really like him i just dont know what to do because im scared i might hurt him again & im scared my feelings 4 him will be blunt /:

if you are goin to do something, be sure about it. don’t just dive right in.

Anonymous asked:
PART1: so like i recently just broke up w/ my bf of 8months & its been a month since i broke up with him and after the break up i realized that i still really like him and i want to be with him and he still likes me too and he wants to get back together & ya sure i do too but i'm just scared the same thing will happen again yknow? i broke up w/ him bc we rarely even talked or saw each other anymore & its partially my fault for not talking to him about how i felt but honestly everythings coming

some people say love is sweeter the 2nd time around, but if someone did something once, what makes you think they wont do it again?

Anonymous asked:
My best friend made plans without me... She went with friends she made at her high school.. She didnt even bother asking if i wanted to go... And one of the girls she went with she told me about she was like "oh and i actually made a best friend at school" and i was like 😕 and she was like "you're my bff but yeah" and like wow i didnt know i would be replaced just like that She basically used me, calling me just to ask my sister directions to the mall they were going to like kaaaay 😕

mehh that sounds kinda harsh. she probably just thought you would understand she is doing her own thing right now, making her own friends without you. you wouldn’t want your bestfriend to be friendless at school right? she would want the same for you.

Anonymous asked:
Hey ate! I'm doing my freshman year in college right now, and I just feel so behind from everyone because I've never had a boyfriend/kissed etc. Almost everyone I know has had someone and I just feel like I'm lacking in some way or not good enough because no guy has ever asked me out or told me I was cute. I don't understand what to do. Thanks for your advice and support <3

don’t worry about that because it’ll happen and it doesn’t happen to everyone at the same time. don’t stress out about it because it really isn’t a big deal and you don’t need that stuff to happen to you right away

Anonymous asked:
i was the one that asked about the date (and you said it could just a friend date). i came back to update! he's my boyfriend now and hit our first month a few days ago. (:

omg yay!

Anonymous asked:
youve been giving so much advice to so many people for the past few years i've been following you & i wanted to let you know that you're doing great i hope you have an exquisite week :)

thank you so much!

Anonymous asked:
This guy last year said I was cute and i thought the same about him but nothing ever happened. This year I asked him to Sadie's. He said yes, but im not sure he said yes just because all my friends were around and he felt pressured to say yes or just because he wanted to. The only thing is..we BARELY talk. We greet each other occasionally in the halls but that is usually it. I really want to talk to him and ask if he is really agreeing to go, but I dont know what to say if he says he doesnt..

if you are going to sadies together, why not get his number and txt? it’ll be so awkward to sit there at sadies and not talk!!

Anonymous asked:
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